March family update

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We have not forgotten our blog. We have just been under a lot of pressure and haven’t had time to update as we would like.

Regina got a big promotion at work. I am so proud of her. Seeing what she does everyday in the lives of hurting woman makes me delighted to be her support staff, staying home and caring for Imogen. Regina is now, in essence, second in charge of women’s ministries at the Rescue Mission. God has really gifted her in this capacity, and I am thankful to see the fruits God’s gifts are producing.

I have been overwhelmed with my studies and my teaching fellowship. I ended up dropping a class earlier in the semester because I found myself sinking rather than floating or swimming. It was a hard decision to make, but I received tremendous confirmation afterwards that it was the right decision to make.

My teaching fellowship has been going very well. I have been participating in the research for my supervisor’s next book, which is great experience for an aspiring author. My supervisor left town for about a week, which meant I was given the opportunity to take his place. It was a lot of work. I had the opportunity to spend about 8 hours teaching, which required a lot of preperation. The experience showed me just how much I have to learn about the craft of teaching. But, it was also an affirmation. I walked away from the experience feeling that, with the grace of God and by the gifts he has given me, I can do this. But, I am thankful to be returning to my “regular” hectic schedule of study and research.

I have been participating in a series of interfaith dialogues that have been really interesting. I have been gathering with several other Christians to meet with Buddhist friends. We gather to talk about our different faith traditions. From our perspective, we are learning what it means to love our neighbor, when our neighbor is very different from us. If you are interested in reading up on it, there are several posts over on my theology blog – http://fromeverlasting.com.

Imogen has been doing well. Well, that is if you discount all of the sickness. This is our first whole winter in the cold Northwest, and Imogen’s first year in daycare. So, most weeks someone at home is sick, if not everyone. We feel like we just can’t catch a break. We are hoping the impending arrival of spring will bring better health to us all.

But, Imogen has been learning and changing so quickly we are daily amazed by our little girl. The other day, she almost repeated the entire alphabet (Darn you Double-U). She is learning new words and phrases daily, and starting to learn to assert herself (for better and worse). She has started sleeping in her own bed, and has begun to refuse being placed in the high chair for want of sitting at her big girl table.

Basho is starting to settle in at the homeless shelter. He still misses us an awful lot, but is beginning to develop a routine. There is certainly no lack of love showered upon him at the shelter.

Our school had its big missions conference this last week. We began seriously speaking to different missions organizations, trying to get a feel for who we would like to partner with. There are a few organizations that are rising to the top of our list. They are all very impressed with Regina’s resume. We would appreciate your prayers as we try to figure out what we should do once school is over. There are a lot of big decisions that we want to get the ball rolling on. We would also love your prayers for our limited time together as a family and the pressure to run well the race God has for us.

Well, I suppose that is all for now. We love you all and are thankful to have you along for our journey.

The magnitude of answered prayers

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We had some friends over Monday night.   They weren’t some new Portland friends, but long time friends who happen to be in Portland.   The Leach’s are amazing people.   Michelle and I go back 10+ years.   I had the privilege of mentoring Michelle when she was fresh out of high school and learning what it meant to be an adult.  I look back and I know that our relationship was God ordained, but I also look back and think, 10 years ago I was still just a kid, what did I have to teach anyone about being an adult.   But apparently I did, Michelle and I spent many wonderful hours sitting coffee side talking.

However, it really wasn’t just seeing Michelle that was the most special about Monday night for me.   Don’t get me wrong, I don’t want to down play how great it was see and hug and friend, pray together and just catch up in general.  I was blessed beyond words to see Michelle, Kevin and their 3 month old little boy Adam.   But what was more special for me than all of that was to meet Magnolia Love (Maggie for short).   A little girl whom I dubbed “the happiest little girl to ever live”.

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Imogen’s first snow day

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So, it technically isn’t Imogen’s first snow day. But, it is the first snow day she has been able to go out and play in.

We weren’t expecting snow, because the weather man had just said that morning that it wasn’t going to snow today. Then we opened the windows and Imogen got a surprise

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So we hurried to get dressed and play in the snow before it went away. She wasn’t so sure at first

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One Year Portlandaversary

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Today marks one year since we pulled into a town where we knew no one to start a new chapter in our family adventure.  And what a year it’s been!!

We had a 3 month old infant, a dog and our Scion packed to the gills with everything we could possibly need while we waited for the truck to arrive with everything we owned.  I had no job and we had enough savings to get us through the 6 month lease we signed.

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Navigating life, navigating parenthood

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When Imogen melts down because I won’t let her eat my phone or have a taste of the raw chicken Daniel is preparing I often find myself saying “yeah, it’s tough to be a baby”.   I suppose I say it out of sarcasm.  After all, life for  a baby is pretty awesome; play all day and have someone to wait on you.  I can’t say that there haven’t been times I’ve been a bit envious.  But in reality, it IS tough to be a baby….a toddler.

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An unmarked envelope

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I don’t know what to say. I’m really unsure what to write. For those who know me personally, you know that it is rare for me to be without words.

I was on my way into a meeting at school when I was pulled aside by one of the staff. She said that someone had come by and left an envelope for me. I took the envelope, thanked her, and and stuffed the envelope into my pocket on the way into the meeting. As I did so, I thought to myself “this kinda feels like…” But I had a meeting to attend.

After the meeting, Imogen and I walked home. We met Regi at the door. I told her that someone had left an envelope for me at school. We opened it together… and the tears started to flow.

There was a generous gift inside the envelope with no note. I am still in shock.

Since we cannot thank our mysterious benefactor in person, we just wanted to express our overwhelming gratitude for your gift. This is an immense blessing that we are truly thankful for. It will help us continue in ministry and study, and go directly towards that. We will also give forward to the HIV family we support in Sri Lanka.

Thank you again, and God bless you for your act of kindness and generosity.

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